She Never Said Good Morning Back: A Lesson in Social Awareness Aug 26, 2026

When I first started teaching, my classroom sat in a small connecting hallway between two larger ones. At the end of that hall was the classroom of a special education teacher who supported students needing emotional and behavioral support throughout...

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The Storytelling Trap: How Much of Your Story Belongs in an SEL Session? professional learning school leadership sel sel integration self-awareness self-management social awareness Aug 23, 2026

Long before anyone called it social emotional learning, I was weaving these principles through my high school social studies classroom. I did it implicitly, without naming it. I built community, cultivated compassion, and promoted reflection because ...

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Grass Remembers: The Patterns Students and Staff Keep classroom culture school leadership sel sel integration self-awareness self-management Aug 18, 2026

In college, summer breaks meant working alongside my father, a landscaper. My brothers, my sister, and my mom placed bets on how long I'd last. Manual labor, scorching heat, long pants, dirt under my nails. Nobody in my family gave me more than a few...

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That Wasn’t Very SEL of Me Aug 14, 2026

By May 2019, my husband and I had saved enough to take our three boys to Italy to visit his sister and extended family. His parents were born and raised just south of Rome, and the opportunity to explore their roots while making new memories felt lik...

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Recognize - Cultivate - Activate: 3 Phases for SEL Integration classroom culture professional learning relationship skills sel sel integration self-awareness Aug 09, 2026

When I was working on the K-12 SEL Learning Targets, I spent a lot of time thinking about where students were going. A learning target's whole premise is the destination... if you can see where growth is headed, you can design toward it.

A parallel ...

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