When Reflection Becomes Performative Dec 29, 2025

And How to Bring It Back to What Students Actually Need

I believe in restorative practices. I believe in reflection.
And I also believe we need to be honest about when our tools miss the mark.

Recently, I came across a student reflection sheet comp...

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When Students Become the Support System Nov 14, 2025

One of the things I’m most proud of from my teaching career was co-creating the SNAP Academy (Student Needs Assistance Program) alongside two of my closest colleagues.

At the time, I had served as the SNAP Team Coordinator at our high school for ove...

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Standing Up for Richie: When Care Becomes Courage Oct 28, 2025

 I still remember the day we sat around the rectangular-shaped table in the conference room after school ended.
Richie wasn’t there, but his parents were.
So were several teachers, his school counselor, and an administrator.

He was considering a retu...

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Joy Isn’t Fluff: It’s a Teaching Strategy Oct 20, 2025

When one of my bunnies, Chaplin, does a binky, it’s impossible not to smile.
(He's the white one with the little mustache!)

A binky is this unpredictable burst of joy: a mid-air twist of the back legs that rabbits do when they feel completely safe and ...

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From Reaction to Redesign: The SEL Skill Hidden in Everyday Frustration Oct 04, 2025

How many times did I get irritated today because I had to wipe water off the back of my phone after setting it down on the sink…

Before I finally just dried off the ledge?

(Hint: TOO many!)

The Pattern We Miss

It made me laugh at myself. Why keep...

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Duct Tape, Hammers, and the Myth of “Soft” Skills Sep 23, 2025

Near my kitchen, I keep two easy-to-grab baskets.

One holds a hammer, screwdriver, nails, and screws. I rarely use it, but when I do, it’s for something obvious, like hanging a whiteboard in my office, putting up a picture, or fixing a stubborn shel...

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Drawing the Line: Language, Empathy, and Boundaries Sep 22, 2025

Last year, while facilitating a session with middle school teachers, I referred to a small group as “you guys.”

If you’re from the Philadelphia region, you know this word isn’t gendered in everyday use. It’s a common way to address a group of people...

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5 SEL Skills, 2nd Grade, 1 Afternoon Sep 15, 2025

When my son, Jared, was in second grade, I came home from work to find him sitting on the couch. His head was down, his arms folded across his lap, and he looked upset.

“Jared, what’s going on?” I asked.

He sighed and said, “I had a really bad day ...

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The Sea Squirt and the Cost of Standing Still Sep 09, 2025

There’s a small sea creature called the sea squirt that begins life with a brain.

As a larva, it swims freely through the ocean, exploring and searching for the right spot to anchor. Once it finds that spot (a rock, a dock, or a coral surface ), eve...

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The Hidden Lesson in a "D" Aug 29, 2025

My middle son took Organic Chemistry (Orgo) 1 and 2 last year at Villanova. He’s a civil engineering major, but he loves chemistry, and he’s worked in the chemistry lab on campus for the past two years.

He got a C in Orgo 1 and a D+ in Orgo 2.

When...

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Feeding the Right Wolf: Lessons from Karate Kid, Old and New Aug 13, 2025

I just watched the newest Karate Kid: Legends, and it instantly transported me back to my childhood.

I couldn’t help but remember when the original Karate Kid came out. Daniel LaRusso moved to Reseda, California, from Newark, New Jersey, while I onl...

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Grass Has Memory: A Lesson for Life and Learning Aug 05, 2025

“How the patterns we create shape the way we grow”

When I was in college, summer breaks often meant working alongside my father, a landscaper. My brothers, sister, and mom placed bets on how long I’d last - manual labor, scorching heat, long pants, ...

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