051: The SEL Knowing-Doing Gap adult sel relationship skills self-management Apr 20, 2023

A few weeks ago, I was having a coaching conversation with some fabulous high school counselors. One of the things we discussed is how to make social emotional learning skill development very explicit for students.

In this case, I don’t mean solely ...

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050: Blog Series: Four Ways to Infuse SEL - Instructional Practices Feb 22, 2023

Our third entry point or approach for infusing SEL into everything we say, think, and do are in our instructional practices. For example, every teacher I’ve ever worked with has leveraged group work or group discussion in their classroom. This post o...

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049: Blog Series: Four Ways to Infuse SEL - Social Interactions Jan 26, 2023

When working with educators on infusing SEL, many often tell me, “I already do this.” What they mean, more specifically, is that they infuse social emotional learning via their SOCIAL INTERACTIONS with students. 

When asked if they explicitly tell t...

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048: Blog Series: Four Ways to Infuse SEL - Physical Environment Jan 19, 2023

When I was a classroom teacher and had heard of social emotional learning, my original thought was that it was all about relationships with students. The more I investigated the research, specifically from CASEL, the Collaborative for Academic Social...

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047: Time to Revisit Co-create Commitments for Optimal Learning Dec 29, 2022

As educators, we know that when there is an extended break from the classroom, it is wise to spend time the first day back re-acclimating to our class routines, norms, and each other. It is also helpful as this may be when new students enter your cla...

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046: You Don't Expect Flowers to Bloom All Year, Do You? rejuvenation Dec 19, 2022

Recently, I revisited my favorite spot for acupuncture, a place that always feels like a reset button for my mind and body. During my conversation with the doctor, I shared something I’d been reflecting on: after a trip to Hawaii, I experienced an in...

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045: To Do Or Not To Do: Poverty Simulations poverty privilege racism Dec 15, 2022

In October, I facilitated a session on Reaching Students Who Are Experiencing Poverty in Illinois. We discussed how poverty impacts the brain and learning. We explored ways teachers can foster positive relationships with families and students experie...

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044: Mental Health, Trevor Noah, and Ye behavior mental health responsible decision-making speech Dec 08, 2022

Three days ago, one of my teenage boys asked me if I had heard that Ye (formerly known as Kanye West) was a guest on InfoWars. This far-right-wing political site espouses conspiracy theories and promotes non-factual news.

I had not known this, but I...

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043: Speaking Your Truth epistemology perspective truth words Nov 03, 2022

Last week, I worked with educators in Illinois on “Reaching and Teaching Students Experiencing Poverty.”  As with every session related to topics that ask participants to share and reflect on their own experiences, I explained four agreements that I ...

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042: Trust: The Conversation We're Not Having developmental relationships language relationship skills resource trust Oct 27, 2022

We all know that trust is a cornerstone of any healthy relationship. Yet, how often do we intentionally talk about it—especially with students?

We want to trust our students to:

  • treat one another with respect and dignity,
  • act responsibly when ...

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041: Learning Out Loud: A Story of Missteps, Repair, and Growth Oct 20, 2022

In the first season of the SELinEDU podcast, we had the great pleasure of interviewing Jodi Friedman. As an assistant principal and equity leader, Jodi’s work as an anti-racist leader includes co-creating the Culturally Responsive-Sustaining Facilita...

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040: ... And They All Lived Happily Ever After Oct 16, 2022

One of my kiddos is writing his essay for the Common App for colleges.

He came out of his bedroom to tell me that the app recommended that they not end with "...and they all lived happily ever after."

I laughed and said, "Learning doesn't always en...

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