056: Blog Series - 3 Strategies for Creating a Connected Community of Learners - Re-grouping Students relationship skills responsible decision-making sel Apr 01, 2024

Ā As educators, we understand the profound impact a sense of community can have on student engagement, learning outcomes, and overall well-being. A classroom environment prioritizes community-building and fosters collaboration, empathy, and a supporti...

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051: The SEL Knowing-Doing Gap adult sel relationship skills self-management Apr 20, 2023

A few weeks ago, I was having a coaching conversation with some fabulous high school counselors. One of the things we discussed is how to make social emotional learning skill development very explicit for students.

In this case, I don’t mean solely ...

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042: Trust: The Conversation We're Not Having developmental relationships language relationship skills resource trust Oct 27, 2022

We all know that trust is a cornerstone of any healthy relationship. Yet, how often do we intentionally talk about it—especially with students?

We want to trust our students to:

  • treat one another with respect and dignity,
  • act responsibly when ...

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036: UnFROGettable Mrs. Y developmental relationships relationship skills Sep 15, 2022

I was in third grade when my family moved to a new school district. It was just after winter break, and my new classmates had already settled into their routines, inside jokes, and lunch table rituals. I arrived as "the new kid"—unsure of where to si...

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031: Thank You For Being a Friend friendship relationship skills Jul 21, 2022

Two weeks ago, I attended a conference of my fellow ASCD Emerging Leaders. We are a group of educators who bonded together through our experiences in the two-year program sponsored by ASCD.

For many of us, the last time we convened was in Fall 2019 ...

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018: Emotional Agility in Action emotional agility relationship skills Mar 24, 2022

This week’s blog is written by Resonance Ed’s facilitator Maureen Zavadel.

How do you provide a safe space for students in crisis within your classroom? While conducting an observation in a high school classroom, I had the unique opportunity to witn...

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007: Resonance Ed: Party of... Many leadership relationship skills self-awareness Dec 04, 2021

Resonance Ed: Party of... Many

 Let me bring you in on a secret that only my closest friends know… I am OBSESSED with self-assessment tools! I have taken the Strengths Finder 2.0 survey, the 16Personalities MBTI survey, the Enneagram survey, the 4MA...

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006: Both/And Perspective relationship skills social awareness May 11, 2021

I've been actively practicing deep listening for the past several years to better understand another's perspective. I say "deep listening" because when the topic is related to a core value or a previous "hurt," my initial response is to feel an emoti...

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004: Big Hairy Audacious Goals relationship skills sel self-awareness Jan 04, 2021

I've never written resolutions or yearly goals because I've never been able to keep consistent with them.

I've resisted and resented time constraints.

I've yearned for the destination and neglected the journey.

And instead of feeling excited abou...

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003: SEL for Adults: Balancing Authenticity and Intention relationship skills responsible decision-making self-management Nov 17, 2020

Long before it was called social-emotional learning (SEL), I was weaving these principles into my high school social studies classroom. Initially, I did so implicitly by building community, cultivating empathy, and promoting reflection without naming...

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000: Beyond Hugs and High-Fives c a s e l relationship skills responsible decision-making s e l self-awareness self-management social awareness Sep 29, 2020

Last week, a district administrator shared a question a teacher asked: "So, how do I integrate SEL? Should I just hug the kids when they are upset? Should I high five them as they walk into the room?"

Over the last fourteen years working as a consul...

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