008: 15 Minutes A Day goals habits one word Jan 06, 2022

I’ve done it in the past, and I wasn’t going to do it again.

#OneWord

I spent days pondering what my #OneWord would be to guide me for the upcoming year. I recall that my word for 2017 was #Balance. In 2018, it was #Purposeful. Last year, it was #C...

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006: Both/And Perspective relationship skills social awareness May 11, 2021

I've been actively practicing deep listening for the past several years to better understand another's perspective. I say "deep listening" because when the topic is related to a core value or a previous "hurt," my initial response is to feel an emoti...

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005: Stashing Joy joy positive emotions Jan 18, 2021

My dear friend and ResEd colleague, Sheila, often posts about JOY SPOTTING (Find her on IG at https://www.instagram.com/positively.sheila/). During the week, she takes pictures of people and things that bring her joy and then curates them into a post...

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004: Big Hairy Audacious Goals relationship skills sel self-awareness Jan 04, 2021

I've never written resolutions or yearly goals because I've never been able to keep consistent with them.

I've resisted and resented time constraints.

I've yearned for the destination and neglected the journey.

And instead of feeling excited abou...

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003: SEL for Adults: Balancing Authenticity and Intention relationship skills responsible decision-making self-management Nov 17, 2020

Long before it was called social-emotional learning (SEL), I was weaving these principles into my high school social studies classroom. Initially, I did so implicitly by building community, cultivating empathy, and promoting reflection without naming...

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002: A Clearer Lens: What I Didn’t See Until Someone Helped Me Look Again responsible decision-making sel social awareness Oct 27, 2020

I’ve worn glasses since the third grade. That means I’ve sat in an optometrist’s chair dozens of times, answering the familiar question:
“Which lens is clearer—1 or 2? 2 or 3?”

Each time, I’m amazed by how much sharper things can become—even when I ...

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001: Cognitive Dissonance and Duck Eggs responsible decision-making self-awareness Oct 20, 2020

I drove past a farm with a large sign that read, “DUCK EGGS FOR SALE.” I immediately felt nauseous by the idea of eating a duck egg. Ducks are the cute creatures that I see swimming on ponds and in funny gifs and memes. Why would I want to EAT one?

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000: Beyond Hugs and High-Fives c a s e l relationship skills responsible decision-making s e l self-awareness self-management social awareness Sep 29, 2020

Last week, a district administrator shared a question a teacher asked: "So, how do I integrate SEL? Should I just hug the kids when they are upset? Should I high five them as they walk into the room?"

Over the last fourteen years working as a consul...

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